"You're from Venus? No, I'm from Earth..."
“You’re from Venus? No, I’m from Earth..." You've heard the famous saying that "men are from Mars and women are from Venus", but exactly what does this mean? Is it perhaps because of a belief that women and men use different language? Many theorists, such as Robin Lakoff, have argued that there is a huge difference in how different genders use their language. For instance, Lakoff states that women use hedges which is when you add lines such as "well" , "you know" and "kind of" and insinuates that they're not being assertive and trying to show politeness however other theorists with similar views, such as Deborah Tannen, shows the idea that men see language as a way to assert dominance. In some ways, I do agree with some of these points, as Tannen says, the change begins in childhood, however I'd argue that this is not because of the sex we were born as but because of the society we grew up in. This is proven extensively if w...